YOU
ARE UNEXPECTEDLY PREGNANT, ARE YOU READY TO MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE FOR YOUR BABY?
You probably have heard many stories about your right to choose what
the best possible solution to a pregnancy is;
you still need to know about the choice that you are going to make
for your baby. Here we give you the facts about choices and the
possible solutions for you.
When you find out that you are pregnant, everyone has advice for
you. While most of it is meant well, sometimes it is uninformed.
Much of it is said through emotion and not really meant. Some is
said to manipulate you into doing what is best for other members of
the family, not necessarily what is best for you. Remember, for your
family and your friends this may be a temporary issue; for you it
is a long-term, life-long, and life-changing situation.
ADOPTION
Many women think that
they could never carry a baby for nine months and then give the baby
up for adoption; for another family to raise their baby. Adoptive
couples have no other way to build a family except for the special
and selfless sacrifice that a birth-mother and birth-father make in
allowing them to adopt and care for their special child.
Adoptive
couples licensed through ABC For Adoption Nfp. are carefully
screened and prepared for the adoption process. They are more than
willing to meet with and interact with the birth-parents. There are
open and semi-open adoptions. These make it so that the
birth-mother can have pictures and information on the baby; birth
moms know how that baby is progressing and about it's development
and growth. There is great peace of mind knowing that your child is
growing up in a loving home and that all of his or her needs are
being met.
Adoptive couples have a strong desire to parent a child that they
can call their own. They have had to meet rigorous standards that
are set forth by the state; they are ready and able to emotionally,
lovingly, and financially care for your baby through adulthood.
ADOPTION
BECAUSE WE
CARE
If you choose
adoption, you will be able to fulfill your goals for life while
knowing that your baby is being cared for and loved. This decision
is yours and probably the most serious choice of your life. Take
your time and do what you think is right without letting others rush
you into any decision.
Currently there are 500,000 couples waiting and hoping for a child
to adopt, and ABC For Adoption's placement rate is 98%, so rest
assured that your baby will find a loving home.
If you would like to know more about adoption and are prepared to
meet the family who is longing to adopt your baby (or choose to
remain anonymous, if you'd like), please call the toll-free number
1-888-44-ADOPT. We are easy to talk to and will explain and
answer all questions that you might have. We can help with your
expenses and prepare you for the adoption experience. Everything is
strictly confidential.
ABC For Adoption is an
Illinois-based adoption agency. Our staff has been helping
birth-parents find loving, stable licensed couples to adopt their
babies since 1994. We are here to help you through this difficult
time without cost to you. We can help you with your financial
burdens in the areas of:
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We are a private
agency with no support from the State, Government or any Religious
group. ABC is governed by a volunteer Board of Directors. They are
a diverse group of individuals who maintain a primary focus of the
needs of children placed through ABC, without regard to race,
religion or special medical or psychological needs. ABC is not an
"adoptive-parent agency" or a "birth-parent agency," ABC is licensed
as a "Child Welfare Agency ." This means that, above all else, ABC's
paramount concern is protecting and providing for children placed in
its care. Everything that ABC For Adoption does is ultimately
focused on meeting the needs of children through adoption.
In all of our
domestic
adoption programs we support birth parents in finding
responsible loving homes for their children. ABC For Adoption
exhibits a tremendous amount of appreciation and respect for birth
parents who, for personal reasons, put their child's best interest
first and choose adoption for their child. We have had the
privilege of working with birth parents that chose adoption for
their child. It was clear in their minds that adoption was the best
course of action and a responsible decision. We recognize that the
decision to place a child for adoption is not a happy decision for a
birth parent. We have never seen a birth parent that was glad to
place his or her child for adoption. We have an excellent staff who
are prepared to assist birthparents in making the best decisions not
only for themselves, but more importantly, for the welfare of the
child.
Our well-trained staff deals with grief, guilt and anguish
that often accompany the giving up of a child for adoption. We work
with birthparents to make sure they are well and able to care for
their needs, before as well as after the birth of the child.
We will guide you through
the application
and adoption processes. You can meet the adoptive
couple if you so choose. We will provide you with update letters and
pictures of your baby. We will inform you of your adoption options;
closed, open, or semi-open adoptions. We can help you make the
right choice for yourself, the birth-father, your family and your
future.
Contact us today at 1-888-442-3678 (888-44-ADOPT) or email ABC at
abcadpt@sbcglobal.net, we will help you make the right choice for both
you and your child.